Author: Story Teller
Too Much Screen Time?… This is a touchy subject, I know. but in this digital age, screen time is an important consideration for parents. With the variety of screens and devices available, it can be hard to decide the right amount for kids of different ages. So, I made this ‘Screen Time Recommendations by age chart to make it easier to understand where to go from here. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) has issued guidelines for screen time use for children, but these are not set in stone. It’s up to you to monitor and guide your kids. My article will…
Okay, I’ll admit it. Occasionally, I say things to get a reaction — especially from ultra-conservative Christians. But there was one occasion where I overstepped the mark — at least in the eyes of the Lord’s ‘chosen.’ As I wrapped up a church service one Sunday morning, I gave a blessing from Numbers 6:24–26, but let’s just say I put my own spin on it. Here is what I said: “The Lord bless youand keep you;the Lord make his face shine on youand be gracious to you;the Lord turn her face toward youand give you peace.” There was an audible gasp. A few…
A child only 2 years old fractured her clavicle after a fall down the steps. A 62-year-old wheelchair user fell while transferring to the toilet, breaking his femur. A 19-year-old started seizing during a hot bath, resulting in second-degree burns all over her body. And a man, 58, experienced a heart attack in his bathroom, hitting the ground so hard on his fall that his intestines bled out. He died on the bathroom floor. The risk of serious injury and death due to unexpected, even shocking, interactions with the fundamental items inside every American home is higher than you might…
Divorce marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another in the journey of life. It’s a significant life event that reshapes not only your relationship status but also your entire existence. Divorce can be emotionally challenging, yet if you let it, it often brings about profound transformations, leading to personal growth and new perspectives. We will delve into five ways life changes after divorce, exploring the challenges, opportunities, and silver linings that emerge from this transition. … Rediscovery of Self-Identity: Divorce prompts a journey of self-discovery and self-redefinition. During marriage, individuals often intertwine their identities with their…
“There’s no smoke without fire,” my Gran would always say, but sometimes it is just a false alarm. Speaking of false alarms, doubts also have a way of seeping into unions for no valid reason. Unfortunately, that still doesn’t make them less troubling. They also tend to be troubling even when they are unarticulated. It becomes of the utmost importance to determine the validity or otherwise of such nagging doubts before they wreak unnecessary havoc, and this is where these crucial questions come in. They can serve as a sort of litmus test for the validity or otherwise of doubts…
There are a number of factors that may indicate that we’re in a happy, healthy relationship. Laughing together, having a shared sense of trust, and being able to argue in a healthy way are some examples. But scientists have uncovered a sign of happy relationships that may shock you. Let’s take a look at what it is. The Shocking Sign of Happy Relationships May Be Mistaken For Something Else Does your significant other fall asleep when they’re with you? Maybe they’re fighting through constant yawns as you eat out together at a restaurant, or they start snoozing away the moment…
Effective communication lies at the heart of every successful relationship. Whether it’s with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague, clear and open communication fosters understanding, trust, and connection. Yet, many of us struggle with communication breakdowns, leading to misunderstandings, conflicts, and ultimately, damaged relationships. To fortify the foundation of your interpersonal connections, consider these seven building blocks to make communication more effective: … Active Listening: The cornerstone of effective communication is active listening. It’s not just about hearing the words being spoken but truly understanding the underlying message and emotions. Practice empathy by putting yourself in the speaker’s shoes,…
Hard Truths It can be quite easy for someone who’s manipulative. They’ll make you the problem and convince you that the problem is coming from you. We’re unwilling to revise our image of this person and of this relationship. Those emotions are exactly what got us into this situation in the first place. In an argument, they look to inflict damage, not solve problems. It’s like scorpion mode; they sting when they feel insecure. Instead of expressing vulnerability, they make it a fight, engaging in one-upmanship or revenge. It’s about inflicting damage, not solving problems. They treat everything as an…
Hey Dr. Nerdlove, My boyfriend and I have been happily together for a really long time. We are honestly best friends. But because we’ve been together so long, I feel like the spicy and romantic sparks have dwindled. I understand that this tends to happen with a lot of long-term relationships, but that doesn’t make it hurt any less. I know he is content with me and we both know we are in it for the long haul, but I miss those flirty, romantic little snippets of the day that made me feel desired and wanted by him. Our sex…
Some time ago, a classmate told me a story: During college, this classmate had a senior sister who had a great boyfriend, and they had a very good relationship. The senior sister and her boyfriend were inseparable, always together in everything they did. Although not married yet, they seemed like a married couple. But not long ago, they broke up. When asked about the reason for the breakup, the boyfriend surprisingly said: “I broke up because my girlfriend is too beautiful. I want to find a woman I can live life with.” Many men tend to look for a very…