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Assomeone who works closely in the Design and Product Management space, post-it notes are an essential tool in my daily workflow. On our fourth date, my girlfriend and I created a game that became the defining moment of our relationship — one where we learned the most about each other. What you’ll need: How long will it take: The game can take anywhere between 1 to 3 hours depending on how garrulous and opinionated each person is. Here’s how you play: At the end of the game, your table or wall will look something like this — So what’s the…
Conflict is an inherent and unavoidable component of interpersonal relationships, encompassing various types such as romantic, familial, and friendships. Nevertheless, how we manage and traverse these disputes ultimately influences the well-being and durability of our interpersonal relationships. Engaging in fair fighting is a crucial skill that can convert a highly charged debate into a valuable occasion for personal development, enhanced comprehension, and heightened emotional closeness. This article aims to examine the concept of engaging in fair conflict resolution and present practical techniques to facilitate the constructive resolution of conflicts, hence promoting the development of healthy interpersonal relationships. 1. Selecting the…
Trust and intimacy are the building blocks of a strong and enduring relationship. Whether you’re in the early stages of a romance or have been together for years, cultivating and maintaining these elements is essential for a deep and meaningful connection. In this article, we’ll explore the significance of trust and intimacy in relationships and offer insights into fostering a bond that stands the test of time. I invite you to join my email list, where I share valuable updates and exclusive offers. Your presence would be truly appreciated The Importance of Trust Trust is the bedrock upon which a…
You don’t always know what you’re doing sometimes… But that’s okay, because we’ve all been there before. It’s so easy to become addicted to the excitement of falling in love. But it can make you forget about the things you shouldn’t do. However, if you’re serious about finding lasting love, there are two things you should avoid when dating someone. And what is the most important part? Your self-respect has to be stronger than your feelings. Because your feelings don’t always recognize the warning signs right in front of your face. Don’t let blind love make you sabotage yourself. ……
When my boys were little I was having a frustrating day. I had two little guys under the age of three. I was trying to reason with my older son about his behavior. My sister offered me some parenting advice. “You need to stop talking,” she says. “I get it. He’s your oldest and he seems like a little man. He’s a smart little guy. But he’s 3 years old. You need to stop talking and use consequences.” “I thought I was using consequences,” I say. “I put him in a time out.” “Yes,” she says. “But you’re talking to…
Trust is the glue that holds relationships together, but everything can feel unstable when it shatters. This blog post provides critical insights from a top couple’s therapist on mending these cracks. Our guide offers clear steps and heartfelt advice to heal your relationship and weave trust back into its fabric. Discover how to start rebuilding today—read on for hope and healing. Understanding Trust in a Relationship Moving beyond introductions, let’s delve into what trust means in a relationship. It acts like the glue that holds partners together, forming a foundation for love to grow and thrive. When you put your…
Managing a relationship is challenging. Couples encounter exhilarating highs and inevitable lows. Naturally, it is so easy to celebrate the happy moments with yourself and share it with your friends. But it can be tough to discuss the challenges because it may make you double-think about the relationship’s stability and overall success. However, the hard times can be a good indicator that you’re doing something right in your relationship. Relationships require balance. You can continue to approach the joyful moment whilst being able to recognise where growth is required. It can be difficult to figure out if your relationship is…
When I am in love, I become fully immersed/enmeshed/absorbed in that person and piece by piece I disappear. The romantic in me, the poet in me, likes to swim in the notion that true love is meant to be a wild and untameable exploration of two people becoming the one sublime entity. But having now survived the most devastating relationship breakdown of my life, I realised that having that kind of view of romantic love is just a toxic quest for possession of the significant other dressed up as “soulmate love”. Worst yet, having self-analysed and researched attachment styles, I…
When considering narcissism, we must keep in mind that a person may be either a covert or an overt narcissist. When we examine covert narcissism, it’s best to see them similar to someone with introverted tendencies. Someone who is not extrovert but introvert. When we contemplate overt narcissistic behaviors, it is best to envision them with more extroverted tendencies. Just because someone is not the center of attention, loud and boisterous, doesn’t mean they have no narcissistic tendencies. This explanation might make it easier for you to understand how these two types of narcissism are displayed and carried out. This…
High-value text messagesCraving conversation. You send him a note that reads, “I’m craving our conversation.” This message slips into his day, jolting him out of whatever he’s doing. It’s not small talk; you’ve dived right into something substantial, providing a distinct complement to your dynamic. Adorable but demanding “Why haven’t you asked me to see the new Blade Runner yet?” This wonderfully demanding message expresses your want to accomplish something with him. It works even better if he had no idea you wanted to see that film, putting the onus on him to invite you out on a date. Playing…